Confidence

Confidence...

So I’m sitting here thinking about confidence. I was picturing myself getting out of a car and attempting to walk cute towards a guy without walking like my feet hurt in my heels. You know that walk.  LOL. I compared the way I see a woman on the T.V or in movies how they get out of the car and just stops traffic and I thought, how in the world do women do that? When they walk not only do they turn heads but their presence commands attention. That’s when I thought about this must be what confidence looks like sprinkled with grace.

We all know that woman who is confident yet arrogant with it. But man oh man that woman with confidence and graceful with it… There’s nothing like it in the world. She’s broken yet possesses a strength that allow her to keep going. She’s afraid yet stands in the face of fear with the passion and determination of the woman with the issue of blood. She’s awesome. So I kept thinking… When a woman possesses a certain nature, it comes natural to her. I also believe that although it comes natural to her some things, in order for it to be perfected and used to its fullest potential, it has to be groomed or simpler put, it takes practice.

So I realized that I too possess that innate gift of confidence. Then even better, not just I, but we all have that gift; it just has to be groomed and continuously perfected as we grow and mature. I love to see another confident woman presenting her gift with grace. Confidence comes in all forms but in it’s best form, it comes from within… so we don’t have to imitate another woman but we can ask God to help us to express our inner gifts with grace. Because when we express that gift, it will attract all the amazing things and people you need in your life… and for those things that it attract that aren’t good for us, that confident woman will know her worth and won’t allow that thing to come in and dim her light in any way… know your worth. There’s only one you. Take a look at who that person is and learn, love, protect, admire, cherish and value her…

When you master your innate gift of confidence, use it to build not only yourself but others also.